Please help me..what is wrong with my masturbation? Why is this happening?

ok, Im going to assume that when you masturbated the old way, you were completely satisfied [was able to get it up and ejaculate]. Here's a wacky idea i came up with: start out masturbating he old way, then when you start rising our when you start to feel aroused, switch to the hand way. no oils or anything with the new way just you and your hand. if you continue to be aroused than do this for the next few weeks than try doing the whole thing the new way. if this doesn't work you can email me for suggestions {alexiswilliams96@yahoo.com} Hope his helps!